I appreciate the good job you are doing on the internet. I read the news stories on your blog and I enjoy reading your updates on facebook.
Mr. Edeson can you help me publish my story. I want your readers and fans to advise me on this.
Thank you.
What am about to relate here just happened over the weekend and it got me so confused, I told a friend of mine, who then asked me to send the story to bloggers , I might get useful answers. So here I go.
A few months back, I met a lady on a social networking site, she is a Pharmaceutical student in one of the Universities in the South-South. We got talking, trying to psych up each other's intellectual prowess. I discovered she is a very good communicator, well read and highly versatile in almost every topic (politics, sports, social events, religion etc). She knew a bit about almost everything, and i too, am also an all rounder. So we took a liking to each other.
With each passing day, as expected, the issue of s*ex came up, i told her that i can never put pressure on a woman for s*ex on a first date, no matter how much pressed i am. I'd rather suffer in silence than do that. She said it's a lie, all men are the same, they appear nice and cute on the outside, but the moment a woman come into their life, the demon in them come out. I told her, am different, that the moment am focused on something, am focused, and unless the lady makes me believe she wants s*ex, i'll never ask her for it (on a first date). We both laughed and forgot the issue.
Just last week, i was sent on a strategic training session in her State, and i called her on Friday evening, after classes. She came to my hotel, we hugged, laughed, and said all sorts of nice things to each other (being the first time we're meeting), and we decided to spend the cool evening in a romantic resort. At about 8pm, when it was time to go, i called a cab to take her to her hostel and then take me back to my hotel. She told the cab driver to take us to my hotel first, that she'll pick a cab from there back to her hostel. I agreed. We got to the hotel and she changed her mind, said she would spend the night and go back early Saturday. I was curious, but didn’t argue, we both watched SkyNews till about 10pm and decided it was time to sleep, she went to take her bath while i went downstairs to get a recharge card. When i came back, i saw her wearing one of the sexiest, silky pacific-blue lingerie, she was arranging her hair in the bed mirror, immediately, i knew i was in for a huge test, so i complimented her outfit, got my blanket out and made to sleep on the couch. She looked at me with the side of her eyes, mumbled some incoherent words and got into the bed. My mind was heavy and i couldn't sleep. After a while, i heard her faint snoring and immediately knew she has slept, so i forced myself to sleep too.
Early the next morning, she woke up with a chip on her shoulders, i greeted her, she brushed it aside, she made to the bathroom, brushed, took her bath, and in less than 15mins, she was on the elevator going back to her hostel. I was shocked, dumbfounded and too scared to even follow her, i tried to BB her, she has deleted me, i called, she wouldn’t take my calls. I came back to Lagos yesterday, still tried calling with the office line, as soon as she hears my voice, she'll drop the call.
So guys, that’s my story. Where did i go wrong? I think am attracted to her as much as she is to me. Matured responses would be highly appreciated.
END OF STORY.
• FRIENDS, Please Kindly advice this man
• What should he do?
• Do You think the lady wanted SEX?
- Simon DonSim Yahya likes this.
- Jessy Brewer The lady didn't just want sex i guess she is fed up of the relationship and used sex as an excuse . Oh boy just move on
- Machief Ayuba Mallo Hmmmm i think she felt embarrassed as well disappointed,and its good the way you handled her,just keep pressing on,as long as you love her she will surley come looking for you if she is yours
- Simon DonSim Yahya try as much as u can 2 know why she behav tht way then,cos she may think u dnt luv her cos she may not understand u at all.
- Oogunyemi Holuwartaryo Emmy Horladeeplenty You did well by not sleeping with her and also Thank God for giving you the spirit of self control. And moreover I don't buy this idea of premature sex. It is only God who knows what her motive was. Maybe she's Hiv positiv............... Who knows
- Chioma Amara at times ladies ar lik dat, she kinda felt bad, embarrased nd disapointed, at being rejected, tynk about it maybe am not his type, am not gud for him.... Bla bla bla... press on, dnt gv her a space mk her see hw much she mearnt 2 u . Gud luck
- Samuel Jacob Guy wake up which kind yarn be dis how will u just fall 4 a total stranger,there are many hidden issue unclear 2 u,maybe she is d play around type so u better use ur time n think better tinz relating 2 ur future,next time u have 2 sharp ur emotions not 2 be carried away easily.
- Durodola David Ayodeji Wel u did well dat night but the only problem i see with what u did is dat u shld hav try and talk to her dat night,let are knw dat u are nt in 4 sex dat night,dn't worry man she will come back,she is urs,she will even see dat u are a man of ur words.just take care
- Arike Adejoke Wel i advise u to stop caln her for now i suspect she has anoda agenda nd ur God save u dis is nt a matter of nt been aprctd a wel behave lady wil neva behave d way she does
- Nwoye John T · Friends with Jessy Brewer and 1 otherGuy l want to commend u 4 keeping to ur word as man.U ar such a discipline man any reasonable and potential lady will love to hv as her husband.Dn't call or snd txt to her again.If she is smart and intelligent enof she will call u,if nt let her go in peace.She is nt yours.Never u regret your action.
- Friday Mba sometime this get me worried friends is not all about sex but to put head together, play, laugh and hv same funs. Guy just let her go, who nos her mind.
- Youngmoney Ojo Olusegun Man dis act shows u as a responsible man nd dis type of urs are not common even me my self wl not sleep wen i hv with me a very big meat like dat but in a protective ways.just look @ her 4 sm weeks nd dont bother 2 cal her or send her a text,so after den if she refuses 2 cal u so u can cal her nd ask her d main problem she may tink ur man hood is no more functioning nd dat ws y u hv ignored her dat 9ite.
- Baptist John · Friends with Vanessa Amaechinyc 1 bro.jst chill.If she is dwn,she will come running bck.But,if she dnt,broda,move on n tank God.Wat lies ahead is beta dan cheap 1 nit stands.
