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Thursday, 16 March 2017

Cheating In A Relationship: Blu Cantrell Hit 'Em Up Style Song Review

The statement “Hit ‘Em Up Style” is too Americanized for a local Nigerian guy like me to understand. Let me quickly rush down to No. 5 Dictionary street in America to find the meaning. Yeah, hey! What’s up dudes? I am back to Nigeria with
American swags. I can now speak in American ascent and I now know the meaning of “Hit ‘Em Up Style”. The slang actually means to aggressively or violently approach people who hurts you or to reach out to someone in a certain way.

Love is an intense feeling of deep affection or to feel a deep romantic / sexual attachment to someone. Unrequited love or one-sided love is love that is not openly reciprocated or understood as such by the beloved. The beloved may not be aware of the admirer's deep and strong romantic affection, or may consciously reject it. Do you know if your partner loves you?

Don’t wallow in a bad relationship. If your love is not returned it’s better to work out of that person. You don’t only waste your destiny but also your valuable time which you would have used in doing better things if you continue chasing a “Useless” relationship. There is no form of cheating in a true relationship. If your partner still cheats on you it’s not worth it staying in such relationship.

Do you know American musician, Blue Cantrell? I guess you know her. She did a song relating to cheating in a relationship titled “ Hit ‘Em Up Style” . From the lyrics of the song she said
“I Can't believe that I caught my man cheating. So I found another way to make him pay for it all”

The chorus goes this way:
<<<………………………………….
(Oops) there goes the dreams we used to say
(Oops) there goes the time we spent away
(Oops) there goes the love I had
But you cheated on me and that's for that now
(Oops) there goes the house we've made a home
(Oops) there goes "you'll never leave me alone"
(Oops) for all the lies you told
This is what you're owed.

Hey ladies, when ya man wanna get buck wild
Just go back and hit 'em up style
Get your hands on his cash and
Spend it…

So you better let 'em know that
If he mess up you gotta hit 'em up
………………>>>

The lyrics propose that women should take revenge on cheating men by draining them of their available assets, both monetary assets and property. Cantrell has said that she did not particularly care for the song artistically, but the bitter feelings she was experiencing at the time led her to include it on the album anyway.

Blu Cantrell is a bit naughty for advising ladies to spend their men money anyhow anytime they get cheated. The song is one of my favourite songs and I love playing it. Back when it was released in 2001, I always dance to the song in a very romantic way at parties with my woman. But seriously, don’t take Blue Cantrell advice, do something meaningful when you are in a loop-sided relationship. I know it hurts when someone you love threats you badly. Many ladies go as far as fighting with their partner’s side chick. That is not necessary. If a relationship is not working just leave and live in peace. True love will find you if you are patient at times like this. Believe my words.

Do you want to know more about Blue Cantrell? If so, continue reading.

Blu Cantrell (real name:Tiffany Cobb. Born: March 16, 1976) is an American R&B and soul singer-songwriter. Cantrell rose to fame in 2001, with the release of her debut single, "Hit 'Em Up Style (Oops!)",The song earned Cantrell two Grammy Awards nominations. She is also very popular with her 2003 album titled “Bittersweet” with hit songs “Breath” featuring Sean Paul and “Make Me Wanna Scream”. Her parents split when she was a child, and she and her five siblings were raised by her mother. She was the ex-girlfriend of Hip Hop superstar, Jay Z. Today March 16, 2017 is actually her 41st birthday. Please show her some love by wishing her a happy birthday.

Ladies & gentlemen, what would you do if your partner cheats on you? Would you take all his or her money and spend it anyhow just like Blu Cantrell did in her song “Hit Em Up Style”

THANK YOU.

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FACEBOOK COMMENTS

Anita Okonkwo

me i go just tell am say e don dey over before e go kill oo

Ud Edet replied · 1 reply

Ud Edet

Break up is not cool

Endy Edeson

when it's not too late. @anita

Olajide Olushola

happy birthday blu cantrell. endy is breathe i like

Endy Edeson

@olusola: ok good to know

Frank Chijioke Adeyinka

nice advice to our ladies

Polycarpz Igboon

I remember Blu Cantel with SeanPaul back in the dayz. Much luv baby...

Endy Edeson

@Igboon: Yes. breath by Cantrell and Sean Paul is a club banger. She is really good in dishing out hits

Shak-chile Il Sha Shesash

Thats what most American women are mostly good at. They marry today tomorrow they have divorced and get off with the man's assets. Mind you they do this even without the man cheating, they do it for their own selfish interest. Pls naija women do not listen to such advise they are misleading.