Mr. Edeson, I’m facing a marital issue, please help me publish it so that your fans and readers can
advice me. Please hide my identity because I don’t want anyone to know that I’m the one. Thanks.
I met this my husband in a fast food joint some years back, and while we were dating I never knew him to be into women before we married. We had some hiccups as in the family members including the mum did not like me as such. But we went on to fix date and got knot up. My dear after marriage, a week after, women started calling him, and at one point I decided to hide my number to call one of them, and found out that, he was into women a lot.
So this now became so pronounced that most times, he does not sleep at home, he is a military man though, and he brings women and sleeps with them in the base. His friends knew all of these, and when I confront them because they knew what he is into they will just say they would talk to him.
I have confronted him myself and he told me, if I don’t like it, then I should leave him. He travels a lot because of the nature of his job, so this last time when he came back, he never slept at home for once, he comes back very late, he has been very unfaithful to me, though we have been married for some time now and no kids. I am a believer and I have told God that I will not sin against my body and God.
We have a car that we both use, and I use it during the day while he uses it at night. Now most time when I want to go to the office, I will see some funny things in the car, like a woman’s hair, a lipstick kiss on the chair, condoms and the most recent one that has made me to write this is, just this morning. I saw a woman’s bra hand in the car. My parents are aware of all these, but for some time, he has stopped relating to them about what happens to me.
Majority of his friends are not married, and even the ones that are married are worst than a single fellow.
One thing he does that grips me is the fact that he uses his male friends picture as his dp on bbm instead me or his mum as he's always done.
Myself and his male friend's birthday was just the same day, he chose to make his friend’s birthday unique by even went out with him to make it well for him while my own, he returned home frowning.
What do you think I can do to get out of this mess I am into? I no longer concentrate at work.
I am not happy at all, my pastor has told me not to go that the Lord will make all things beautiful.
The bitter truth is that I don’t know whether he already has children out side.
I am so unhappy…………………………………….. because I have a lot to say but don’t want to bore people with my stale saga.
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- Lucky Hosea · Friends with Mbosire Useni and 2 othersSo u be saint abi ? Soja go soja come, mak u nd ur husband go see tb joshua
- Alaribe Okechukwu Stanley If you have a problem and dont know what to do remember you have a father in heaven, just pick up your phone and dile up the number (JESUS) My sister he is the only one that can help and deliever you out of this mess, just pray to him.
- Oderinde Modinat Ajoke Lawal Am short of words, y dont u call a meeting of his family and yours and try and sort things out. Its beta for u 2 knw where u stand, than waste years in a marriage dats nt working....I dont surport seperations bt I think it's best d 2 family's come 2 settle d issue at hand. Best of luck......
- Okwakpam Eberechi Dear lady,i have many questions 4u which i nid answers to.did u wed in church?did u find out abt him n his background be4 marriage?did u findout why his mother didnt aprove d union?didnt u hangout wit him n his frends b4 ur union 2knw him beta?my dear ur a 'believer'd holyspirit might hav pre-informd u of ur end wit dat man,bt u were lost..
- Bridget Olanisimi Na waoooooooo!life is up and down,dat's ur own cross. U need to cary it as our lord JESUS Christ bear is own without no complain.d lord wi change his heart 2 best in life.
- Okwakpam Eberechi But u knw,dat God is plenteous in mercy..u dnt nid d advice of ur family,evn dis fb advice is wrong,cos evn a native Dr can advice u worstenin d case.few pratical tips,its nt easy bt God,focus n consistency can help..1.GO to God n repent,confess all u did wrong 2GOD,cud be dat God gav u signs nt2 marry him bt u went ahead2 n dats disobedience.ur prayer life,studyin Gods word,atendin felowships,u threw ur personal relatnship wit God away.4rm ur h@t tel HIM ur sori.
- Okwakpam Eberechi 2.There's power in ur tongue,its bin lying low,its time2 activate it.do u pray in d holyghost?if no,den run to ur pastor n ask him 2help get u filled so dat u cn start praying in tongues.if yes,beta 4u.ur gona make scriptural prayer.proverbs 21:1,d h@t of kings r in d hands of d Lord...tel the Lord 2turn d h@t of ur husband 2GOD not 2u.cos a man dat can be faithful to God will be faithful to his wife
- Okwakpam Eberechi 3.find a praying church or u trace DOMINION CITY CHURCH.sitdown n be trained,my dear training is for reigning.women r d deadliest squard God nids 4dis endtime.love ur husband unconditnaly,remember ur beautiful days wit him.stop naging him.
- Baptist John · Friends with Vanessa Amaechiwooww.!!Woman!!As a believer,more fire,more prayers.God will definitely arrest him.Keep d faith.It's jst a battle,dnt succumb 2 d Devil.Good Luck
- Mike M Snr according to my point of view, you are not married. I know how God intervenes in marital Issues - both hearts must be willing for His interference. but this fellow does not respect you at all. Yes, most Men do cheat but still they keep it low and they ...See More
- Situ Michael See woman. If u think living the marriage is the best option, I tell u is a big lie. You need to go and watch a yoruba film were a woman husband was sleping with all the girls in his vilage, he did it to the extend that he was sleping with the woman's ...See More
- Situ Michael But at the end wear the woman fanted, the husband realize all wat he haa done and does not want to loose his wife, he call all the hole vilage to beg her, and she was hapy with her husband for realising his mistake, soory for asking will u ascept him back if u are the one. Just pls pls and pls . God is in control if you want him to beeeeeeeeeeeeee.
- Blessing Adekiya No matter what you are passing through all things are possible in Jesus name. Nothing is too big for God to do, lay ur request before Him and there will be a great change in ur husband life. Prayer is the master key.
