:I’m Heartbroken, Please Help Me: …My girlfriend said no to my marriage proposal…

Hello ENDY EDESON, My name is Christopher and I’m your fan. I notice you only come online once in a day. I guess you are very busy these days and you do other business outside Online Journalism.I appreciate the good job you are doing on the internet. I read the news stories on your blog and I enjoy reading your updates on facebook. 

Mr. Edeson can you help me publish my story. I want your readers and fans to advise me on this.
Thank you.
I proposed to my girlfriend a few days ago and her answer to me was 'she's not ready to settle down'. What I find odd is that she's 29. How can a 29 year old lady not be ready to settle down? We've been dating for about 11 months and I thought we were at a good place that's why I proposed. Her answer took me by surprise and I'm wondering if she really isn't ready for marriage or she's just not interested in marrying me? This is confusing to me. Please help.
GUYS, WHAT ARE YOUR ADVICE FOR THE YOUNG MAN?

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  Festus Praise Uwa wat does both of u do 4 a living

  Saturday at 09:52 · Like
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  Jc Slim Cathy Na even fyn guy,, move on

  Saturday at 09:56 · Like
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  Sonia C. Maritina If she says she's nt ready that automatically proven dt' u re not her ideal kind of man. If u bliv u really love her, den I suggest u fake a relationship with another babe and see her reactions

  Saturday at 10:07 · Like
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  Emmanuel Yahman · 2 mutual friends

  Na wa,so guy men dey plan to settle down,wel dat good,every lady should should be happy if a guy propose to her,it's very difficult to guy 2 find wife materia if na me guy enjoy ur life wen u are young,wen its time d wife go come

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  Akolade Bright Naheem · Friends with Ibrahim Muritala

  If it is so,have u have everything to call has a man,if yes let her know who u are.keep threaten her oneday she will happy atlast

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  Chinyere Nwakanma · 2 mutual friends

  Abeg leav her,n cme 2 me.am ready.

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  Pat Patrick · Friends with Dickson Moses and 3 others

  There must b a reason,mayb ur nt in d picture(her ideal man)@29 she is ready dnt mind her I guess she has someone else..God wil giv u ur own woman dnt panic.

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  Chine Kingsley If shes nt ready now when will she be ready.let her be specific and if she dont wnt u let her tell u.

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  Mimi Aondoakaa @sonia, i agree wit sonia.

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  Mimi Aondoakaa @chinyere, hahahahahaahaha funny u.

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  Jesse Osayande Vucinic She dropped the hint. She wasn't in it for the long term. Move on and find a better and willing lady.

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  Jesse Osayande Vucinic And dont waste time faking a relationship. Maybe she needs a push of competition but i doubt it. She knows what she wants and i believe she did from the beginning. You're not the one for her.

  Saturday at 12:09 · Like
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  Bruce Brandy Dnt mind her,by 39 she will be ready,unserious element

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  Anabel Omofoma God will give you someone who is totally ready for you.

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  Blessing Adekiya Go back to her if she turn u down it means u re not kind of man she want then move forward in searching

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  Korlarworle Habiordun Phemmy · Friends with Abiodun Kolawole

  Guy may b u'r not d perfect man 4 her, ds days dt 20yrs old lady is critically fndng a way of settle dwn tokles of 29. Guy i beg let her go jo

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  Olubobokun Victor Jide Boy! don`t worry much about that the will of God must surely come if you beleive . I will join you in prayer for that is better than to make an everlasting mistake. Those who made this silly mistake is till death do them part. So be watchful she is not for you.

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